Would you choose..a penthouse in nyc with no car or a mansion in nj(bergen county) with a ferrari, bmw, etc.?

I actually live in NJ in a county very very similar to Bergen, we have all the riches and B-list celeberties. The two have goods and bads. Living in the upper cl towns means your kids go to school with the snobbiest kids, where they are wearing the best of the best and driving an Audi on their 17th birthday. Being in NYC there is so much diversity, they have homeless on the streets and millionaires in the sky rises, but there is no room, no fresh air, no yard to play in for kids and lots of crime. But personally I would rather live in an upper cl town and just have the biggest house and nicest cars that people drive by to oh and ah out, if that answers your question.